Exactly! Everything in life depends on how you look at it, so cut yourself a little slack.

I once had an affair with a friend's wife. At first, I felt bad for betraying my bud. But then all I had to do was tell myself that she was so sexually frustrated that I was really saving my bro's marriage by giving her orgasms. I was actually the totally selfless good guy in the story! All that DATY and sweat-soaked crazy sex, and now, twenty yrs on, they seem really happy together, and it's all because of me.

Double personality ... double post ?  



Ahhhhhhh .....  you just deleted it ahead of this post !!!

Jake, it doesn't add up here .......
You said you've had girl friends in the same house and at the same time with your better half so
why would you not welcome a friend whose wife you've fuked before ?

You are comparing apples and oranges.  Fucking a friend's wife is not cool period.

But everyone knows that Hotel Clerks and Tour Guides are the biggest whores of all.  We have a saying in Cantonese, "Kai Ga Lo"  basically almost means sucker who is willing to be a sucker if viewed in this sense.

These Hotel Clerks and Tour Guides tend to have about a dozen "kai ga los" and give them all the same ultimatum.  They just want to see which one will bite.  It is "REALITY"  Usually they will end up with some unsuspecting sucker and usually it turns out to be someone from another country.  p.  

Ask any of the more "seasoned" Chinese mongers in here.  It is not a lie.  And more likely than not, they do have a Mainland BF who is willing to sacrifice his GF just to get out of the Mainland.  And believe you me, they will fuck you over 99% of the time.

sexpert, do you want me to send Irene to spank you? NotMarsupial is a respected member in this forum; at least in the eyes of Jake the Snake

therefore behave yourselves

I mean a friend who married a WG. I think I can trust my GFs not tell my wife but I can't say the same about a WG. I might
easily be wrong but why should I take the chance? Anyway, it's all probably hypothetical. I doubt if any of my friends would
ever marry a WG. They're all too old.  

Are you still helping him ?

I doubt it, since it was 20 years ago. (although he might he helping his friend's daughter these days )

So he calls the whore up and says, "we are having problems here in the States Immigration issue, my lawyer says that we have to wait another year"  She knew he was backing out.  Her response was, "do you know how many men I could have had offering me marriage in the year that we were together?  4!, 4 other men offered me marriage and I chose you!"  

My friend asked her is she was sleeping with them, she replied, "of course, why else would they want to marry me?"

My friend was devastated.  Devastated that he was fucking that whore bareback while she was fucking 4 other guys bareback.  He just did 4 tubes of blood to be tested.  Will get the results on Monday.  In the meanwhile, my boys and I will be taking him out whoring the whole weekend long until his results come in on Monday.  Last night, he got pretty drunk and kissed all of us on the cheek.  He said, "what would a guy do without friends like us".  This is why I thought our decision was right.  I STILL SAY, despite all other claims that we were right and a whore will always be a whore.  Especially those China hotel clerks and tour guides.  Perhaps it is a Chinese thing, too many stories? whatever it may be.  

At least there is a conclusion, well sort of... until Monday's blood results for my buddy.

Your friend calls the scheming, evil-whore hotel clerk and says that there is a problem with immigration. So to persuade your friend to go through with the marriage, she does what? - she admits that she is sleeping with 4 other guys?! No woman is that stupid.

How convenient that this post of yours comes just in time to save you a little face after all the negative feedback you took  in the "Have you fallen in love with a 141 chick' thread.

The kissing on the cheek and "what would a guy do without friends like us" bit is really too obvious. Fiction requires subtlety.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 27-1-2008 12:14 ]

That's the thing with non Chinese.  You don't hear enough horror stories.  This is tame compared to a lot of others.  If you refuse to believe that these whores are doing what they are doing.  It is best that you go out and marry one of these whores.

BTW, the other thread had it both ways.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, just wondering why you are so sensitive about it.  Could it be that you married one of these whores?

[ Last edited by  sexpert at 26-1-2008 23:50 ]

Yea, this happened.  We have a thing in Chinese about Mainlander girls, especially those from big cities.  It's called, "YEEN SUT" in Cantonese.  And many Mainlanders are very, "yeen sut".  It is sort of like realistic in English, but the undertone meaning is a bit different.  I would not expect a non Chinese person to understand it completely since it's more a cultural thing.

Please, spare me the Superior Wisdom of the Chinese routine. You're as American as I am, and if I remember correctly you're 32 yrs-old. I've been living in Asia for 32 years and I speak/read fluent Mandarin; and I've sure as hell had a lot more non-WG Chinese girlfriends then you have. And I know that no Chinese girl would ever admit to her fiancee that she is sleeping with 4 other guys. Real convincing that: "Honey, you have to marry me because I'm porking 4 other guys and I like you the best."

I don't deny that some WG's are ruthless bitches. But you start this thread pretending all you care about is helping your friend. Then you admit that your main concern is really saving your own ass. Then when you are criticized for that, you again become the selfless nice guy thwarting the Evil Whore.

If I'm sensitive about anything, it's bullshit, and this whole thread reeks of it.

Brilliant psychological insight there sexpert - yes I'm married to an Evil Whore and instead of divorcing her and agreeing with your position, I have decided to defend her honor because I'm a contrary guy.

To each his own.  Sorry

sexpert, apologise to Marsupial and Marsupial, apologise to sexpert
and all is well;

whoever is right or wrong, that's not really the issue;

we are here to share fun and experience, remember?



and if the two of you don't apologise, then I will;

sexpert, I apologise for Marsupial's comments and

Marsupial. I apologise for sepert's comments;

continue the discussion, not for the purpose of  fighting, but for the purpose of getting everyone to understand the situation;

I don't speak Cantonese, but from your description, I would say your "yeen sut' must be 現実. "Xian shi" is a frase used to describe all Chinese women, esp. HK'ers. "Xian shi" means unsentimental, hard-nosed and practical, it doesn't mean stupid; and no 現実的女孩子 would be dumb enough to admit screwing around on her fiancee.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 27-1-2008 00:49 ]

But this is fun.

Consider it squashed.

I can't believe we're still discussing this. But I do believe sexpert's post #49. Otherwise,
why would he raise the subject again 14 days after the previous post.  

Because of Nikkeimaster's post a few hours ago in the 'Have you fallen in love with a 141 chick' thread - another thumb in poor sexpert's eye. So in a desperate attempt to regain some credibility he resurrected this thread with the improbable news of his friend's phone call. I do sympathize, but my love of the truth bid me speak out. I could do no less.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 31-1-2008 14:48 ]