Being a Mod, I suppose ya could have just moved this already-rather-active thread to the new social-media section.  

Or you could just create your own thread and direct people there.    Like ya did.  Ya.., that works too.  Nice.

Is it because that section does not allow Karma?  I was told that was a bug...  But that was weeks ago.., and a Bro still cant offer Karma in that section.  Weird.  Why?  Reports on WGs the world-over allow Karma, but not if you found one on a website?  Ummm...  wait a second...  what is 141 again?

So continuing my adventures on seekingarrangement. Have been seeing a young milf for the past 2 months. She's only asking £500 a month to meet 2/3 times. I go round her place fuck for a few hours get some dinner or takeout and fuck some more. I spend 5/6 hours there each time. She may not be the youngest or the prettiest girl there but she is very submissive. Does anything you want. All the holes, swallowing, rimming, sucked my toes. She likes being slapped as we if that's your thing and hard spanking. All in all, a very kinky experience and good value too.  She's deleted her profile now as we have made this a long term arrangement.

I don't know if I can find some good girls on wyp in Orange County.  They all look pricy and hard to find a starting point.  What's a good tip for filtering the bad ones?

Just arranged to an 18 yo blonde girl for Wednesday. She wanted £350 to meet for the evening about 8 hours. She says she's done this before so is a bit experienced. Lets see what happens. Looking forward to it.

Wander: that's the whole idea of seeking arrangement. Something mutually beneficial. There are loads of willing woman I find. Some ask for stupid amounts though. The most asked if me was £5k p/m and shopping trips in Selfridges but she was a model. Many are willing to pay per play. Anything from £300-£500 per evening. Definately worth checking out if you want more than just a quick fuck. I have connected with almost a dozen woman on there but many are just looking for a sugar daddy with no sex. I usually invite them out for lunch to discuss the finer points of an arrangement. You get an idea of what they are like. Some are really nice people who just want a little more cash to spend on themselves. Some can be very blonde and not something I am looking for.

Can a mod tell me if I am allowed to post pictures? Technically they are civvies and do this as moonlighting.

[ Last edited by  geek at 27-8-2013 21:06 ]

as long as they take compensation from you, then they are not considered civvies

please RA the photos appropriately

thanks

How should the photos be RAd? Is it written somewhere? Can someone point me in the right direction?

Thank you.

Edit: I found it. Thanks. It means that I won't be able to view my own pictures. That's kinda ironic. Ha ha.

[ Last edited by  geek at 28-8-2013 09:36 ]

So my date with an 18yo. Should mention that she made contact first. Met her at the train station. Looks like her pictures but a little more round the gut. Still quite pretty. Definately under 20 at least. Went for a bit of lunch. Had a nice chat. Conversation didn't flow so there were a few awkward silences.  Back to the hotel. Now the problems start. She doesn't dfk. Very bad bj. She was more loose than the milf I have been seeing. Only good thing was her pert Teenage tits. I tried to initiate round 2 but she complained of having a stomach ache. Bollocks! I got dressed and said I'd take her back to the train station.

To conclude. Be weary of people who contact you first.

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/detail.php?id=1518793

It's a shame you didn't have a better time.  Better luck next time.

But this had little to do with the fact she contacted you first -- just random luck.  I have only seen gals that contact me first:  there is enough to choose from and they filter themselves out to those that DO fuck-for-money.  Most have been plenty attractive, with a few ultra-hot and a few plain-Jane.

I have a thought:  that statistically gals that join these sugar-daddy sites are better looking (on average) than in general society.  They would need to have a bit of a healthy ego concerning their looks, right?  I wonder........

Wander: I think you're probably right. I jumped the gun a bit on that. I guess it was just plain old luck. You win some you lose some.

Regarding the sugardaddy with no sex bit. Apparently, it happens more often than we think. A lot of men, read older men, pay them just for their company. I don't know how true that is but it's what the ladies have told me.

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The no sex bit is very true. I mistakenly tried SA and contacted a really hot girl in my price range, but didn't notice she had an "NSA" tag in her profile. Being new to this, I had no idea what all the acronyms meant. All I knew was hot girl I could afford.

Fast forward to the actual meeting, and of course me wanting to jump her bones and her wanting no sex was a bad mix right away. I apologized up front and explained it was my first time and she seemed to be put at ease and we talked at length about SA.

Basically she explained really old guys really just want the happiness and company of a good looking, youthful girl and they enjoy making these girls happy monetarily. While at first it is very shallow, over time companionship becomes very real. They know the sex wouldn't be "genuine" and they want genuine relationships to develop. A lot of times these guys are multiple divorcees, their spouse has passed away, or their families don't take care of them emotionally. It was somewhat sad to hear.

At the end, it was a nice talk and she reminded me NSA = no sexual arrangement.

This is in response to ggherkin's comment about it being a potential police sting:

A few years ago I contacted a couple of Taiwan cuties about 2 weeks before a trip from US to Taipei.  IF memory serves it was through either www.escorttown.com or someplace similar.  Anyway, using an alias I contacted the girl and initially got a rather generic offer back -- included in this was a request of when and what hotel I was staying in Taipei.  I responded with a basic discussion of when and where I would be visiting and more about what I was looking for -- still from my alias email address with incorrect name.  After this, I received back an email telling me that this was illegial in Taipei and IF I checked into the hotel I mentioned in Taipei, I would be arrested.  LOL  I think my long-time security method of arranging meetings under an alias might have saved me a bit of trouble.  (Though, in reality upon arrival I would have otherwise needed to give my real name and room number anyway, so perhaps they were just trying to scare me actually and nothing more?)

I did once meet a VERY attractive office girl in Hong Kong who I met P4P via www.alt.com  In that situation it was a real bargain for a long meeting.  My guess was that she had a very high sex drive, liked western men, was a bit kinky, and needed cash... so it was a win/win for all involved.

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Absolutely.  Gals will join WYP for many reasons or a blend of reasons --- and certainly high-sex drive with a cash bonus is a big one for many of them.  It is a discrete way for them fuck men without doing the clubs picking up men.  

This description fits my WYP regular perfectly.  She's not the type to go clubbing and likely too shy to actually pick up some guy publically and let him fuck her.  WYP bi-passes the complicated mating-game steps, let's her get some action she absolutely needs, adds to her tuition fund, and keeps it all private.   

What's not to like??

ive actually scored a nice local off wyp in asia now. she is a regular i provide about 160 usd for as long as i want and she is basically on retainer now.

didnt think it would work had to wade through some bs from 2 other girls. but this is one i like.

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So I just had a crazy WYP adventure this week.  I am still trying to process all of it really.

Sent an offer to what looked to be a very wholesome, cute, and attractive girl.  It was a low offer as I expected she would counter me, but she didn't. She accepted a $50 offer.  I was concerned she may not be like her photos since she took such a low offer.

I was very wrong.  This girl was fucking hot as hell.  She told me she had recently lost about 40 pounds and I guess you could see it in her, but the first time I saw her she was a solid 9.  Her face was a 10 for sure.

I will come back with more on this encounter in the upcoming days.  Just a preview....

No panties under her dress
Orgasms from licking her nipples
Oh, professional porn actress

Wouldn't believe this one if I hadn't experienced it myself.

More to come.....

Jake
"Orgasms from licking her nipples
Oh, professional porn actress"
She probably did nto post this on her profile!!

A couple of questions:
What age bracket are you guys in? Young guys doing this is one thing but I am a bit older. ? thoughts about that?
Has any one tried this in Japan? There are lots of local women there who would probably be interested in this arrangement.
BSK

hehe.  Nice Jake.

I have 3 LA regulars now:  two asians (one from WYP; the other a hot massage gal that is now a fuckbuddy-with-bonus); and my longtime stripper-Latina-gal.  It's a good team.  Three very different girls, all hot and sexy, and all having a blast just as I am.  

But the ease of my scoring has become complicated -- I am no longer in my monthly hotel suite rental, but now at my own house (with family) so my nice fuckpad is gone.  (sigh).  I dont want to go rent pricey hotels for a few hours 3 times a week.

So Krissy, my WYP asian student, blurts out an idea.  Take me to your office on the weekend and fuck me on your desk.  (!!)  She is so surprising -- she is shy and reserved but inside that by-the-numbers-brain is a kinky sex maniac just begging for release.  I've known her long enough now to not really be worried about her turning pyscho.  It seems very clear and obvious that there is no risk of any serious emotional attachment either way -- she's a young (but mature) student having a bit of fun and earning a bit on the side.  

So I'm going to do it tomorrow with her.  Hehe... crazy perhaps.  But it shall be fun too..  If I wasn't the boss I think I would make a point of fucking her on the boss's desk.  (haha).  (scratch that one off the bucket list).  But I am (so even though I WILL fuck her on the boss's desk it wont carry quite the same level of devilish-wickedness).  hehe.  Looking forward to it.

Well, I have to say that was fucking HOT!  hehe.

Just finished fucking Krissy in my office.  Man, I am a crazy bastard, to be sure, but it was such a freakin turnon!

We meet and greet and I give her a tour of the place.  Earlier in the week (while sexting) I told her I love the look of a gal in a flimsy t-shirt and no bra (who doesnt, right?).  So shortly after arriving she takes her bra off wearing nothing but this tite little shirt covering her amazing big tits.  Mmmmmmmmmmmm.  It got me raging hard in seconds.

She blows me while I sit at my desk.  Awesome and fun.  I return the favour as she sits in my chair.  I DATY for a good long time and she cums.  She does love DATY!  And then the great finale, I flip her onto her back on my desk, her legs in the air, and fuck her madly.     She looked so bloody awesome lying naked on my desk.  I have a nice leather couch in my office that I expected to use -- but I didnt make it.  haha.  I have never quite seen her so wickedly aroused either -- so it really turned her on as well.  We both had nuclear-explosion orgasms.  Damn fun ---  wish I took a picture of her like that!  

Anyway, we finish and clean up and chat.  We discuss other fantasies we can help each other achieve (there really isnt much left that I havent done) and I ask her "Anything you always wanted to try?"  She replies, "ever had a threesome?  I mean, two girls??"  "Yes, several times" and I explain a few of my HK experiences (especially the ones with my bi-regular Rose).  "Let's try it, please" she asks.  "Awesome, baby... okay.. we'll figure it out".

I am going to ask Isabelle (my Latina-stripper regular) if she wants to help me.  I am not at all sure if she's ever done a threesome before, but it would great fun giving it a go with her.  We'll see.

I keep getting Winks on WYP -- but I havent replied to anyone in ages.  I have my plate full at the moment.. But is absolutely works.

I have a dilemma I hope you guys can help me out with. I have met a lovely girl on seeking arrangement. We only had lunch but we got on really well and I want to make a long term thing with her. She knows I like her and want to make a long term arrangement with her. She texted me yesterday asking for my help with a flat. Basically she wants me to pay for a months rent and deposit and she will waive 4 months arrangement fee. This is about £1000. She's offered her passport for me to keep, has been skyping with me and sending me pictures. She seems genuine but you never know with woman on these sites.

Do you guys think its worth the risk and how could I minimise the risk involved? I could go with her to sign any contract for a flat so I know where she lives? Get her to sign an agreement to pay me back? Keep and photocopy her passport with the agreement?

Thank you for any advice.

Bro, I think this one is simple actually...

You've only had lunch!  One date!!!  Waaaaaaayyyy to soon to consider ANY kind of long term engagement.  Did she slip some bewitchment juice into your coffee??  Holy crap that's sudden.

Fuck her a 5-10 times first.  If you still feel the same way then maybe progress to something more fixed.

So no... definately DO NOT sign your name to anything!  Do NOT pay her anything in advance.  The fact she asked this is shocking and makes me think scam.  You dont really know a thing about her yet.  She is still very much in "impress him" mode and may not at all be acting like her true self.

Caution, my friend.