Like the subject says... I recently turned 18 and was tipped off by my friend about this website and I was wondering if it is "appropriate" for a virgin. Also is there usually a language barrier with girls at walkups? I'm not fluent in chinese, though I know a bit of it thanks to chinese classes at school.

[ Last edited by  kirby12534 at 25-2-2018 20:14 ]

do a search here,  many have asked this same question and got answered the same

i kinda like this topic, the moral maze...

If you pick a WG with a good attitude (from the reviews):
- at least one of the two of you will know what to do
- she probs won't make fun of you and guide/teach you a few things
- no strings attached, you won't have to see her again if you don't want

downside, your "first" will always be with a WG, and may not be an appropriate story to tell others...

if you hold out till finding a partner:
- You will need to actually spend time to find a partner
- if you have a phobia of not performing well, you'll be seeing her all the time, so that won't help if you do badly...or...you both could be virgins and would be fun exploring together...
- maybe less likely to get diseases if you found a partner?
- don't have that social stigma hanging over your "first" time, a story you can tell i guess...

anyways, just a few points that came to mind...

of course you like this topic, you're in the same boat , right ?

When it comes to paying for sex, the question isn't about appropriateness as situations are all different for different people. That being said, my 2 cents, for whatever it's worth is ..... Why are you~looking towards a working girl to pop your cherry?

While I'm not the guy that believes in "wait until marriage", or "wait for the perfect situation", I do think that, as with all our "big steps" in life, driver's license, first job, first car, graduation, etc etc..... These are memories that you should cherish and maybe even celebrate. Part of the journey is the experience. And when it comes to sex, I do think that it should be with someone meaningful.

Sex with a WG isn't meaningful. It's quite the opposite. It's actually quite meaningless. They don't care about you. Many of them have had their pu$$ies f*cked so often that they really don't enjoy the act of love making anymore. Of course... There are insatiably horny gals too who enjoy the transaction more than their clients do.

Seeking out a WG to pop your cherry I think has 2 pitfalls at both ends of the spectrum.
1. The experience is amazing and  civilian sex becomes difficult to measure up. It could potentially lead you to romanticise the experience and trying to chase the dragon. Trying to find THAT experience again only to be disappointed time and time again because well.... You've romantacised it and the experience is now better in your head than it was in real life.

2. The experience is horrible and now your "first time" isn't a Treasured memory.

Sex with a WG is easy. It's like going to a fast food burger joint. You go, you pay, you eat. It's that simple. It's something that you can do anytime you want. But there's the trap also. It's easy. Real life is more difficult. And a lot of people end up returning to that well over and over again because of that.

We're not here to judge. Do what you want, but think about why you want this.

~UD

personally, my first time was awesome.
however, my first time was at a house party (in my teens) hosted by a chick from another school,
hooked up with a random chick,
found an empty room upstairs and went to town.
it was great! all 10 mins

later found out she was 2 years older and was the town bike - everybody got a ride,
never had i looked her up again, ever!

from my experience, my first time might as well have been with a wg,
it wasn't with someone memorable, cherished or the one but i will always remember the experience...
my2c, you just need to enjoy the moment because you will always remember the first time.

good luck with your choice

Ouch, no mercy for the newbies ... but yeah, lets see if i can return the gesture, "use the ratings for one liners please"
But more so the question got me to actually think, as opposed to reading reviews, which is why i liked it and it's a controversial topic in which we've seen some different responses from different ends of the spectrum...

But I share UncleDad's opinion, your first should be with someone meaningful and something to treasure...WGs can be any time...

That was a great first time story. And I'm sure it's a story you'll remember and laugh about for years to come. The person might not have been memorable, but it was memorable experience. I think that's the best way to go.

My own story wasn't the greatest. But like yours, it was memorable. I was a late bloomer. I started dating early, and  loved crazy make out sessions, but sex didn't come into the picture until I was 22. There was this awesome girl that I had been getting to know... Her and I had been getting a bit close... But while I was abroad, she emailed me and said she wasn't ready for a relationship yet (she was 19). Met up with a bunch of friends at a club for drinks. Friend's friend was there... She decided I'd been hitting on her all night (I wasn't).... Went out for a breather, she came out with me, I was upset that I'd been "dumped"... And here was a cute(ish) girl that was just handed to me on a plate. Ended up making out in the alleyway beside the club.... Probably would have popped my cherry there if either of us had a raincoat for LB.... Grabbed a cab, stopped at a convenience store, and went back to my place. She stayed over... We had lunch the next day... And I've never talked to her again.

Dunno man... I feel like life is about stories... Memories. Good luck mate.

~UD

stories aside, loosing one's cherry to a GF or a WG would depend on one's circumstance
it would be great if the virgins reading this forum would come out and tell us their thinking on who they would start with rather then just asking for our opinions

I lost my cherry to an ugly blonde skank on the passenger seat of my car. She was feral. lol
I felt regret for the first few seconds after shooting my load and watching my used condom getting chucked out the car window by her.  But this was quickly followed by relief that I was no longer a virgin.
First-time sex is so over-rated. I enjoyed my first brothel experience with a Helen Hunt lookalike more.
Here is my advice. If you have trouble picking up girls, find a sexy young HG who speaks your language and book two sessions to take it slow. After that, follow it up with a few walkups to get some experience under your belt and maybe visit wanchai after that to practise talking to chicks. If you get laid, that's a bonus. Then you should be good to go. Don't get too comfortable with shagging WGs. If a girl asks you about your first experience, stretch the truth or tell her you don't kiss and tell. lol  In short, if you have a girl lined up now and you love her, ignore this suggestion. But, if you feel it is going to be years before you will pluck up the courage to get the first cab of the rank, then just do it. Enjoy your youth.

[ Last edited by  Thai-delight at 1-3-2018 06:27 ]

good advise about not kissing and telling as well as taking it nice and slow the first time but that will depend on the WG and her attitude at that time

twice: I lost it later than most of my friends, though I think some were full of BS.  I went off to university really young (about 17) and had lots of opportunities in college but I lacked the balls to take that next step. After screwing that skank, I got more confidence and got lots of sex in the few months after that - free and paid. I just needed that push. Since I was quite shy, I wish I had seen a wg when I was 18. I would not have placed pussy on a pedestal and would have got more sex in college.

uncledad: I have no feelings for that girl. We fucked a few more times. I went back to uni and she continued shagging half the nightclub (including the DJ ... true). I don't consider it a good story to tell, because I don't share it with anybody nowadays, because nobody asks. We hooked up at a nightclub. I finger banged her that first night. Met up the second night and fucked in my car. Felt huge pressure to do it. Didn't enjoy it. My favourite experience during those next few months was with an early 20s wg who looked just like Helen Hunt. I still remember her smells and how nice her room was.lol First time I showered with a hot looking babe.

@puffy.... Lol.... Hope you've found that dragon a few more times over the years.
@thai-delight .... Sorry to hear mate.  As far as stories go, I think it's still a good one. But I hear you man... So many teenagers put pussy on pedestals. I never really understood it. Maybe because I was never shy. Lol. But I wasn't ready myself until later. So I never felt that pressure. I've always had a pretty good understanding of myself.

~UD