Reply #1 Ecthelio007's post
Just wanted to add my two cents to some of the comments above
Personally - i enjoy SA. But i do agree that SA is not for everyone. Your gotta be comfortable with the costs, its not about value. You can find amazing gems that are stunning, its a lot more work but the payoff is worth it. Typically most SD on sa are much older than 30, i would image they are 45-55. If you offer me the hottest thing on earth snd she is a zstarfish and a normal girl next door thats all over you, i will pick the girl next door.
1) if you are looking for a value punt - Dont bother with SA.. I've tried it all at this point. I done everything from walk-ups, the hotel walk-ins, did escorts, been to the 1% room salons in korea. Tried south east asia, been to Thailand, tried everything from pickup bars to places like club alexis in jakarta to ktvs and had a blast! But all this still doesnt compare to my experiences on SA.
2) SA is not designed for single males, who can go out and have casual dates and are looking for a quick shag. Most of the time, its for people that have baggage and want to have a discreet relationship. Its also designed for SD, you are essentially trying to find a mistress who will be with you exclusive for a time.
a few tips on SA, anyone that has long standing profile is normally going to be a ppm type of person. I avoid ppm because they are just like the other options out there, a quick punt - and these punts don't offer me anything anymore. The ones that really are a blast to meet are the girls who are connecting with you, understand the game so emotionally there is still a line, but its pushed way back compared to other working girls.
These are the type of girls that you want. They want to be your mistress and be exclusive with you. These girls know you got baggage, they also are doing it for the money. But they understand they bring something else to the table, they are willing to connect with you, they are open to the emotional connection and willing to have intimacy at a level your not going to get with a working girl
Typically these girls activate their profile between SD and deactivate them when they are with a SD. I see 3 groups of girls on SA. 1) ppm - these girls go from one meet to the next and offer sex - no different that whats out there 2) monthly with boundaries, high maintenance girls that are doing the same thing but the prices are just higher 3) true sugar babbies imo - exclusive, trying to connect with someone and once you hit that connection they treat you like a bf - honestly there are no limits to the sex.
5) once youve filtered to that type of category of girls, it is all about taking your time and dating them. Its about breaking down those walls and building that trust. Because once you get them to that point - the sex is AMAZING! Honestly there are no limits youve built that trust up between two parties - ive been offered more bbfs on SA than ive ever received over all my years of punting. The intimacy is more genuine and its just amazing imo.
If you are single, can date openly - Looking for a quick shag and find SA expensive - i agree there are other options that meet your need better.
SA is really designed for ppl that are prob married, individuals that are further along in their careers where the costs arent a factor, but want a young hot mistress on the side. Quick punts dont do it for us anymore because weve punted so much and need more genuine connections.
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