Hey theworm, thanks for sharing your experience as well.
Another bro was asking whether I was doing BB with this girl, of course not as she was a working girl before.
I also want to share what was happening before I met this girl. I was mongering on average 2-3 times a week. Each time it was $600-800 as I was going to spas mostly with some HGs and sometimes walk ups. So this works out to be $6,000-8,000 a month pretty much for 5 years. All of this time it was just pure physical release but something was missing as each session was only an hour long.
With this girl, I can spend less than $1,000 for the whole weekend, lunch and dinner twice over. Going to the cinema is pretty cheap in Shenzhen, I buy her some clothes now and again, but it is like $100-200 each time. The sex is total GF experience now as there is lots of sweet small talk, passionate DFK and just hugging each other before and after falling asleep together. When we go out we take a lot of selfies, do really silly things, hold hands and kiss like two teenagers. It is part lust and part love as she reminds me of my first proper GF I had over 30 years ago.
I have met her aunt for dinner in HK already with her as her aunt knows I am married but ask me to treat her nice. She told me she doesn't know how long she will be in Shenzhen for, but right now I just tell her lets enjoy each other's company and live the moment. I can control my emotion and don't need to think about her all the time whilst at home and work, but when I am with her it is totally bliss right now. And to be honest she is a lot less demanding than many of the typical local HK girls.
The last couple of months I stopped mongering and just don't feel the urge anymore. I end up saving $4,000-$5,000 a month. And come the weekend and during my days off I have something to look forward when I see her. Right now I am planning to take her to Macau for a long weekend, go and see a concert together, and just have some fun! | |
