Reply #20 sbs23's post
Just to clarify. The girls that send you an offer are telling you what they want for a first date. The girls don't pay you anything. In fact, the girls on this site don't pay anything. Not a penny to join.
On the picture issue, Wander is correct about locking the pic until you allow them to view it. I don't use that approach. What I do is put up a pic that is unrecognizable. Like thirty feet away from me or something. Then all my other photos are hidden until I send a girl an offer. I find having at least one photo showing gets me many more offers and winks.
I buy points in bulk, 1000 points for $250. My average offer like Wander is $100. If the girl accepts, it costs me 20 points to unlock communication. If you send an offer over $200, you must have at least 40 points in your account to send it.
This is a dance, not unlike what you see in Wan Chai. Here is some more advice on making connections, the right connections.
1. Wnader mentions looking for girls with "no strings attached" listed in what they are looking for on their profile. While I agree this is a good indicator, if you want a lock solid, DTF girl, look for "married dating & discreet affair" in their preferences. I am 100% hook up with girls with that in their profile.
2. Make your offer, if she accepts, send a quick message like this, "Thanks for accepting my offer. I am excited to actually meet up. The site is slow on email notification, here is my number, 123-555-1212, text works so much better for me, Jake." The biggest reason you want to get off the site and on to text is that if by chance you get a chick that is a prude and you mention compensation and sex in an email on the board, she can report you and out you go, losing any points you may still have in the bank. I haven't fallen victim to this, but I read a thread about it in another site. So get the connection, and get off the site. If you are too worried about giving her your number, you are beyond my help. Two words, Google Voice.
3. After you begin the text conversation, quickly ask what she means by discreet affair. It doesn't matter if you are single, tell her you are looking for something that will be intimate, and you are a generous guy once you find the right girl. Never make the first offer. I had a girl last week tell me that seeing her would be expensive. I said really, how much? She said $500-$1000 for a weekend. I fucked her brains out that night and gave her $100. She was 19, 5', 90lbs, and a wildcat in bed. That was for almost seven hours together.
No brain surgery here fellas, just jump in and get your feet wet. In the last 18 months on WYP I have meet and bedded well over 30-40 girls. I literally have one to three in every US city I travel to on a given week. Different girl each night is always possible. A week ago in Atlanta, four nights, three girls with one repeat. Total outlay, $1000. Three of the girls stayed overnight. In the US you can hardly sniff an overnight for less than a grand.
There are some pros on the site, but they are easy to spot. They are the ones that send you an offer for $400-1000. I reject them and move on. I can find a pro anywhere, anytime.
Happy hunting.
Jake | |
