@ kennylazy
welcome to the board!
now, don't be lazy, Kenny. head on over to International Reports and do some reading on anything labeled "Bangkok" or " attaya"--there are other areas, but those are the major mongering destinations.
it can be intimidating the first time, but if u can handle a bit of exploring on yr own, you'll find that either BKK or PTY has more wonderful gals than any man could possibly want. u can spectate at a go-go, luxuriate at a "soapy" massage parlor where u pick yr date from a massive "fishbowl" full of pretty women in evening gowns, or just head over to Lolita's where the technicians specialize in top-quality blowjobs. in many ways Pattaya is more easy-going, less traffic and the naughty-fun stuff is more concentrated. a lot depends on what u wanna do. which u gotta spell out as there are no mind-readers on this board!
u do need to exercise a bit of caution in Thailand: don't drink so much u make unwise decisions, don't get angry with ppl (esp those wearing uniforms), and wear collared shirts/long pants (NOT kidding: clean, semi-decent clothes make a difference). if you show up wearing a Hawaiian shirt, shorts and flip-flops, u might as well write "NEWBIE TOURIST" on yr forehead 
leave the guilt at home. Thai society is conservative, but sex is considered "sanuk" (fun), not something alien to the human species. u will have MORE fun if u laugh and joke with people, and don't pay over the odds (to find out correct pricing for services, chat with yr fellow punters: there are some weirdos out there, but u can do some quick intel-gathering and get an idea of what the scene's about. again, much depends on u, yr desires and yr initiative.
good luck.
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attaya"--there are other areas, but those are the major mongering destinations.