Similar Situation - Two Thoughts
I used to have this issue as well, back in my 20s. In fact, when I lost my virginity to a fucking goddess (19, blame jesus), I didn't cum that night, and instead finished the next morning. My issue, as I later found out, was that I jacked off too much. I mean, there is no such thing as too much, but I had an addiction. I don't think I'd ever had a "wet dream" because once I found out about cumming, I was nonstop; like 2-5 times a day back then. I slowed down in my 30s to 1 to 3 times per day. I had actually never gone, for example, two or three days without coming.
Plus, I learned to jack off raw, no lube, so I think my brain was used to the feeling of a hand, rather than that moist cavern. I could pop in a minute or two with my hand, but then experienced issues when fucking; my ham-handed cure (pun intended) was to think of a porn I had watched recently, and that would make me pop.
Now that I'm older, as long as I don't cum that day, sometimes a day before (if i'm drinking), I have no issue. Don't know if any of this is useful, but good luck! | |
